Blurred Lines & Good Girls!

I feel slightly irritated and maybe a bit discombobulated. I just wanted to use discombobulated. It’s such a cool word.

Okay back to my issue.

I’m bothered by the attacks on Miley Cyrus.

Her performance at the MTV VMAs certainly wasn’t her best however, that being said, she proves the point that she can do what she wants to do and I did see Robin Thicke grind on her ass. Seriously have you watched the uncensored video of “Blurred Lines?”

If you haven’t take a peek now!
I personally love the, “Robin Thicke has a big dick part.” 😉

Don’t get me wrong I love his song and I love the uncensored video what I don’t love is the double standard.

Yes Hannah Montana is a Disney princess but Miley well she’s not. That was just a role she played during her younger days. At this point it might be fair to say she’s breaking out and although she’s going about it the totally shocking way, give her a break. At least the same break men get.

Watch the video and share your thoughts.

Were you repulsed and disgusted by Mileys suggestive performance or did you just laugh and say, “look at ole’ Hannah Montana.” ?

Do you judge womyn on the same standard as men?

Share your thoughts whatever they may be.

Questions YOU can’t answer.

Today is a good day to post this. It was written by Kim Richardson.
The link to her facebook is included.
  • I wrote this in 2009, but it seems timely to post it today. Forgive me if it’s posted twice.
    If marriage is a holy union between a man and a woman, and by holy I mean religious, then:     
    why are atheists allowed to marry?     
    why are people allowed to marry without any religious ceremony?
    If marriage is for children to grow up in a home where they can be cared for by a man and a woman:     
    why is divorce legal?
    why isn’t there a movement to make it illegal?
    Isn’t it the biggest threat to marriage?     
    why aren’t people who create children compelled to marry?     
    why aren’t childless married people compelled to create children?     
    why are there so many children in the foster care system?     
    why are divorced parents allowed to keep their children?
    Does freedom from religion exist if law abiding citizens are denied equal rights because one religion disagrees with those rights?
    Religion is a protected choice.
    IF homosexuality was a religion that believed marriage to be a union between a man and a man or a woman and a woman, would it be protected?
    If marriage is a religious union, why does it involve the state at all?
    There is no state involvement in a baptism, or a bar or bat mitzvah.
    Why is marriage different? What if marriage wasn’t a state issue?
    What if all adults were able to join in a civil union or domestic partnership?
    And marriage was a religious ceremony held separately by people who practiced religions that believe in it?

Sex Alone…


Certainly got your attention with that title didn’t I?

It’s misleading. I should apologize but I can not.

One can not live on SEX ALONE although many have tried.

I too have tried.

We are complicated, complex individuals with many needs and desires.

It’s time I come out .

I have a soft side.

Here’s where I can be found if you so desire.






Every culture sees beauty different then others.
Look at this pic.. this womyn is beautiful in her tribes eyes and her country.
How do YOU measure if a womyn is beautiful or not ?


#1 Is she beautiful?


Most label a womyn with a body such as this BBW. I label her BPW.



#2 Is she beautiful?


Today’s model and today’s womyn.


Here is the difference between today’s model and today’s womyn
Which womyn is beautiful to you?


Nothing’s wrong with any womyn’s body.

Every body is beautiful!


Nothing’s wrong with any womyn’s body.
Every body is beautiful!


This might surprise you.

Take a closer look.


All three are beautiful.

All of these women weigh 154lbs.
You can see not all women have the same bodies even if they weigh the same.
All these women have beautiful bodies.




Body Beautiful!











Let them eat GAY cake!


Times have indeed changed since my coming out party…

wait I didn’t have a coming out party.

It’s wonderful that the youth of today can embrace

who they are and have the courage to

COME OUT boldly, cleverly, creatively and oh so publicly.


Accompanying the cake was a note:

good morning parents,

i’m gay.

i’ve wanted to tell you for a long time.

i thought doing it this way would be a piece of cake.

i hope you still love me.

i mean, it’s hard not to love someone who baked you a cake.

all my friends know and still love me.

your acceptance would be the icing on the cake.

i hope you, much like this cake, are not in tiers.

i hope we can look back on this and say

“boy, this one really takes the cake.”

it gets batter.

love, laurel (sorry for so many puns)


Way to go Laurel!

 Tumblr user ellende-generes (real name: Laurel)